SOLUTION
The key to success is to use an appliance that is both comfortable, easily retained and predictable such as a simple Hawley retainer with recurve springs or a fixed labial-lingual appliance (including a vertical removable arch for ease of adjustment with a recurve spring to jump the cross-bite).
Both of these appliances work by tipping the maxillary teeth forward so they are in a normal dental relationship to the mandibular teeth. Once this is accomplished, it will allow future coordinated growth between the maxilla and the mandible